Guilty Pleasures – Contoversy

Daily Prompt -Controversy

Let’s accept it. We all love controversy. As much as we all deny it, controversy and drama are our guilty pleasures. Some might think it’s wrong to budge into other people’s personal lives where it’s unwanted, but it’s human nature. It’s in every human’s nature to indulge themselves in drama and controversy once in a while, even if its wrong

The word originated in the 1300-1400 and has English, French and Latin roots.

But what actually do we gain from controversy? Happiness ? Satisfaction ?Comfort ?

Curiosity . Controversy satisfies our curiosity to know things, sometimes things that are not meant for us to know, but we know it anyways. Curiosity is good. I love having the incentive to know new things but for issues like someone’s marriage or divorce, I doubt the righteousness of curiosity.

Controversy varies in the eye of the beholder. For a spectator, it is juicy and really interesting. For the person caught up in the controversy, it isn’t as well. They are subject to judgment, to opinion and most importantly hatred.

I used to love drama and controversy as well. Being an avid fan of YouTube, it was only a matter of time before I was engulfed in the channels of John Kuckian and Karina Kaboom.

Then I realized, controversy isn’t always facts, it’s a mixture of gossip, rumors, and facts. What good does it do for me to add my opinion into it, it isn’t making things any better, is it?

To be aware of controversy is one thing, to add fuel to the fire is another. Bigotry is a major characteristic in controversy. Everyone has a side or an opinion, publicized or unpublicized. If someone disapproves of another’s opinion, it just adds to the fire.

Do I think controversy is necessary for progress and development? Mixed feelings. I enjoy the idea of public discussion on a topic but when no one is willing to accept constructive criticism and ideas, then it turns into drama, which is unnecessary, which in turn opens a whole new door of lies, rumors and uncredible facts.

There are people who feed off of  controversy. Are they bad people? No . It’s their wish whether they want to indulge themselves in it or not. The only time it is bad is when they verbally or physically abuse those involved in the controversy.

If you think about it, controversy is something we create, us drama loving humans. It doesn’t just pop up, it has roots.  Those roots strongly cling on to the soil which is a platform for the tiny little issue to grow into a large controversy.

I avoid controversy unless the topic being discussed is valid or if it affects the future of a community or the world or if it is a question of national importance and when our opinions calm down the fire rather than aggravate it.

Controversy once used to be a valid topic, one to be debated no discussed on, now the simplest thing is controversy. Seriously someone going to McDonalds is not a controversy, it’s their choice, we don’t have the right to give our opinion it.

Controversy now consists of menial situations, not even issues, opinions for people to hate on, people’s clothing choices, jokes. It’s about everyone’s personal life because like I said there is nothing we love more than other people’s lives. Will controversy ever actually retain it’s original importance or has it turned into a something all of us are tired of?

What does controversy mean to you?

Is Luck Just A Figment of Our Imagination ?

Daily Prompt – Luck

Luck .

Four letters . One Syllable . Every person defines it differently , every religion interprets it differently , but is luck an actual phenomenon or is it just our imagination playing tricks with us ?

The word itself originated in the 1400-1500 as a part of Late Middle English an Middle Dutch .

Luck is what all of us hope for , what all of us may or may not get .Luck is unexpected , it’s like a wave , you know its coming but are unsure of when . The difference between waves and luck are that waves are scientifically proven and accepted by everyone , luck isn’t .

Do I believe in luck ? Yes , absolutely . Is luck an ingredient to hard work ? Not necessarily , it can encourage people to work harder but it isn’t necessary that one who works hard runs into luck.

Luck is a contradiction in itself . The word itself is supposed to signify something good , or so I thought . Then why is there such a thing as bad luck ?

Our world has run into this so called “bad luck” . Corrupt officials , disintegrating nature , animal extinction, loss of faith in humanity , selfishness . Are all of these causes of bad luck or are they adjectives to describe bad luck ?

Does luck vary from person to another . Can one situation be good luck for one and bad for another ? These are questions I can’t definitely answer , for I myself am confused.

It’s ironic how a four letter word can put all our heads in a frenzy.

The concept of luck is way beyond the scope of my imagination , it makes me giddy to be honest . How is something that in concept is supposed to be so simple but confuses me instead .

The word ‘luck’ has perplexed me for years . What is the true meaning of luck ? Is it just a synonym for fortune or destiny ? Or are all our perceptions on luck totally wrong ?

Waking Up ( Change Your Outlook ) 

Waking Up ( Change Your Outlook ) 

I just woke up a few seconds ago and just came to the realization that waking up is what starts your whole day . If you don’t wake up , you are dead , both literally and metamorphically . There are a million different ways of waking up , in hundreds of countries , but is there one effective way of waking up ?

You know , a lot of people may disagree with me but I think that the way a person wakes up is different when they are different situations .

You might be thinking , why is she choosing such a topic to write on ? Well , I believe its the tiny things which always gets misinterpreted and misunderstood .

A lot of people fail to realize that the mood you wake up with ,affects your whole day . If you’re grouchy when you wake up , you’re grouchy the rest of the day .I love waking up on Fridays . Why ? Because I’m positive I have a fun , productive day ahead of me . 

I get that there are a lot of reasons to not be happy while waking up . School , financial issues , expectations or just the world itself makes you stressful .

Think of this situation . There are two people , with the same intellectual capacity , with the same capability and memory . Ho wever , both have a different outlook on life . 

Before I get further into this example I would like to explain that the outlook a person has on life is based on their observations and their bringing up . A person brought up with difficulties has a higher chance of being pessimistic rather than optimistic . Not insinuating that he can’t become an optimistic person but its likely he won’t . 

It’s sad that I can never be truly optimistic , I try to be for the sake of others , otherewise I was brought up to be a realist .I find that whenever I am optimistic , I end up disappointed . Realism gives me a clearer view of life . I do distinguish happiness and optimism as two different things . If you guys wish to read something towards those lines , i’ll be more than happy to do so , just leave me a comment.

Moving on , These two people wake up differently , one wakes up by complaining and going straight to that coffee , the other wakes up by appreciating his life and going straight to that pepsi . What I’m trying to say is that there is no perfect way of waking up . While it is scientifically proven up with an optimistic attitude makes your day a whole lot better , however it’s just the perspective that you look at the situations that make your day better or worse and not the actual situations themselves .

Many people , if you made reading it till here , might think that I’m going to criticize the drinking choices of the two people . If such people existed , I’d advice them but if they aren’t willing to change , I leave it at that . We are not to decide how other people live their life . The effect they have later on their life , that’s their story and one we are not to judge….

Now irrespective of the drinks they choose,  they both woke up with a different outlook on life . Can I predict what their day will have in store for them ? Absolutely not , I leave that to my frenemy – Destiny . Can I predict how their overall day might be like  ? Kinda . The person with the happy attitude is more likely to have a happy day and the other , well you can guess . Notice how I have not definetely defined their day , but I have just given two varied possibilities , because like everything in life , in the end it’s unpredictable .

So with all my rambling , I have an answer. There is no perfect way of walking up . The situations that destiny has planned for you will not change irrespective of one’s optimistic or  pessinistic attitude . The perspective you view those situations , however can tilt that day for better or for worse . 

Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments below and don’t forget to like if you enjoyed 🙂

Faith in Humanity

Faith in Humanity

Humanity used to have a lot of meaning , but slowly the depths of its understanding is disintegrating into exterior beauty and fake kindness. 

Humanity , in my opinion , in addition to kindness also means standing up for whats right . However ,a lot of people are afraid , afraid of death . Everyone is intolerant nowadays , no different opinion other than one’s own is accepted .

In this world of bigotry , how are we to survive ? Isn’t it criticism that progressed our world ? The Renaissance itself was a result of opening up to new ideas , ideas that were once considered “idiotic” and not plausible.

Pre – Renaissance was known as the Dark Ages for a reason , we don’t want it to come back now do we ?
Everyone is divided by religion , by race , by melanin concentration , all for what ? The world isn’t progressing , our minds are regressing , only technology is advanced . It’s only a matter of time before Artificial Intelligence replaces us all . 
Religion is belief , it shouldn’t be forced upon anyone , otherwise it wouldn’t be a ‘belief’ .  

 
As for trends , Mannequin Challenge , Running Man Challenge , older generations despised it , but what’s the harm in it ? A bit of fun never killed anyone , I doubt it would kill you .
But when do things get out of hand ? Ah , that’s where it all lies to . For one YouTube video or for an Instagram post , people start using other’s weaknesses , that’s when it gets out of hand .

Pranks . I enjoy them , I really do . Extreme pranks however , they are not my cup of tea . I prefer my tea having happiness and silliness , not traumatization and terror . 
It’s easy to blame others , why not offer them advice instead ? People are less and less willing to accept criticism as hate is all they get . Why not be nice when advising somebody ? Why not be understanding ?
Future generations have little hope if intolerance is our future . Our once luscious green earth is now dull brown , maybe we can’t renew it , but we might as well try . Our ancestors succeeded in not destroying , why should we be termed as the “Destroyers” ?
  Let’s all work together ! Our contributions may not be much , however a billion droplets form an ocean.
Multiple evident cases , ones I wish to get into more , ones I wish to get into more , but won’t due to fear , irrational fear of hate , of threats , all because of my differed opinion.
Comment your thoughts below , I would love to hear them and have an discussion , until then , have an amazing day ahead ! 

Simple Little Things

Simple Little Things

A lot of us tend to ignore the simple things in life , the things that are so minuscule compared to larger luxuries but bring us more comfort than others .

What are ‘Simple Little Things’ ? As I like to call them . In Gauri’s unofficial official dictionary Simple Little Things are those small situations or objects that give you more pleasure and happiness than something big or obvious .

An example that all of us can related to is is quenching your thirst . Water has no taste , it is so called the ‘tasteless’ liquid . Yet we find ourselves drinking it the most . The true taste of this clear ,sparkling liquid is only experienced when you’ve run that marathon and your mouth is parched or after that painful exam that brought cramps to your palms and when you have that sip of water , you realize that water is indeed not tasteless , but deep inside those molecules of Hydrogen and Oxygen is sweet , delicious nectar.

The perfect scoop of peanut butter , the perfectly fried french fries , finding out your phone isn’t destroyed , perfectly peeling off plastic , the previous alliteration all are simple little things that make me happy .

Everyone’s ‘Simple Little Things’ are different . Mine may be all related to food , yours may not.

Maybe something in these glass painted windows might make you happy . Or the unnoticed designs on the walls might as well .

Share some of your ‘Simple Little Things’ in the comments , maybe a new friendship awaits you .